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Cognitive dissonance?? I don't think so.

For some women the ultimate sexual thrill is when her lover sets her limits. Having another pick the when, where and how of sex is one of most intense emotional experience some women can have. This specific lack of control is key to delivering an intense feeling of something "real" versus a "scene" to such women.

The woman you reference was trying to describe a scenario in which she wished only to determine the "with whom" of sex, but nothing else. This is not hard to grasp at all.

In "confessing" to you she needed for you to give her words and understanding about her desires , not for you to put her in a neat little politically correct box.

Epic fail on your part.
Posted by DirtyYoungExec on January 17, 2011 at 2:52 PM · Report
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The woman has had a a LIFELONG FANTASY about being raped... so much for all the commenters bad theories her marriage is the source of this desire.
Posted by DirtyYoungExec on January 18, 2011 at 2:05 PM · Report
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@Satyrblade. Word.

Dan Savage linked to an article a few days ago about how something about women's tears decreases sex drive in men. Not only is your average, decent guy not a rapist, even if he wants to fake it for the sake of his partner, biology is going against him.
Posted by Delafina on January 18, 2011 at 2:36 PM · Report